Saturday, April 17, 2010

FAREWELL

So the module has officially ended, and I have to say, I really enjoyed it. Every week, I gain new insight into different ways of analysing culture, and every week, my classmates have added their own insights into how we can come to understand culture. Collaborative learning (: I enjoyed reading blog entries - blogs are such a great outlet for creativity, and thanks to those who read my ramblings.

Good luck to all for their exams and their report write-up!

Friday, March 26, 2010

CMC + Conclusion

H3LL0 3V3RY0N3!

Okay so I can’t do L33T speak so well. Still the point is that the internet is one avenue through which language is rapidly evolving. Dr Deng explained the ways in which males and females differ in their use of language online, and I thought that was really interesting. The internet is maybe a place where people are freer to express themselves outside of sociocultural norms – it’s its own world, isn’t it? Hence the labeling of a ‘virtual world’. I would think that in this virtual world, maybe the issues of language and gender (as highlighted in the previous class) becomes less apparent, since the possibility for anonymity and thus gender-bending is much higher. There may not be such a need to maintain politeness or conform to the expectations of gender online. Maybe it is in the virtual world that we really have a homogenous culture that is reflected in language.

I think one of the best things about the internet is that the language is always changing and accommodating to new lexical entries. For this, I think the best place to see it is http://urbandictionary.com … All kinds of new words are invented and people use them on a daily basis when online. Very interesting!!

Final Thoughts…

Class has been really fun and the topics are very interesting. I think my favourite topic was last weeks on Gendered Language just because it’s something that’s so imbibed in us we take it for granted and just use language without realizing that it could potentially be problematic. It’s good to know that stuff we’ve learnt can actually be applied/observed in real life, instead of it all just being pure theory. So the best part is that I can actually apply the stuff learnt to life, and it won’t go to waste.

Looking forward to all the presentations!

Friday, March 19, 2010

Cross-Gender Interaction

So this week’s topic was really interesting: Cross-Gender Interaction. In class we discussed about the reasons why English could be considered a ‘sexist’ language, and then focused on some of the general features that females/males would use in their language, and finally, some reasons why females/males would even speak differently in the first place. During class a couple of things popped into my head that I thought I’d share here:

1) Nouns and Gender in German
I took LAG1201 in year 1, and suffice to say, it was confusing! I think part of the confusion is because, unlike French where nouns have 2 gender categories, German has 3: Masculine, Feminine and Neuter. It’s crazy. So the definite article for masculine nouns would be der, die for feminine nouns and das for neuter nouns. On first glance I’d probably think that German has attempted to mitigate the issue of a sexist language, but then it’s quite weird: children are called das Kinder while girls are called das Mädchen (both neuter) and they have 2 different words, das Auto (neuter) and der Wagen (masculine), for cars. Also, like what Dr. Deng said in class about French, in German, the computer/PC is masculine in its gender, so it’d be der Computer or der Personal-Computer.
I don’t really know what to make of it, or even how some nouns land into some categories…it all seems quite arbitrary.

2) Topic Development
So we learnt that women prefer more personal topics while men prefer more impersonal topics… I think this is true but only to a certain extent. I think men do talk about personal issues – I guess at some point they must want to share their feelings/problems, right? (: -but perhaps this is also mediated by their use of more aggressive language when they talk about such personal issues. For example, they might probably scold a lot of profanities when talking about problems, so that it creates a kind of distance between themselves and the problem, making it seem more impersonal. I’m just hypothesizing here based on what I’ve learnt and heard; do not want to stereotype!

3) Messages vs. Meta-Messages
So Dr. Deng said men focus on the literal message, while women focus more on the meta-message, a kind of inference from the literal message. It’s so funny because just before class, my friend was relating to me a story:
For convenience, we’ll call my friend A and her friend B.

B went to Thailand and bought A a bag. However, when B got home, his mother saw the bag and asked if she could have it, so B said “okay”.

B then told A that he didn’t have a present for her because his mother took it.

A then said, “Didn’t you get your mother anything?”

B replied, “She said I didn’t have to get her anything, so I didn’t, and then she decided she wanted your bag.”

To this, A said, “You shouldn’t ever believe a woman when they tell you they don’t want anything!”


Hope you enjoyed the story! Have a good weekend!

Friday, March 12, 2010

Face & Politeness

Something I realized today was that yes, maybe in verbal contexts it is easy to convey politeness and utilize (however unconsciously) the maxims that Leech talks about. However, when we look at non-verbal aspects of communications, such as via MSN, SMS, e-mails, letters etc, the whole concept of politeness and face management seems to be a lot harder to analyze.

I realized this because of the group activity we did in class – the one where we analyzed a string of SMSes. My group didn’t think much of the message “Do you want the answer twice?? :))” and we just assumed it was on record-baldly, until someone pointed out that there was a smiley face there. Then we all realized how easy it was to overlook something like that because it seems so trivial and yet the inclusion of the smiley face showed positive politeness.

Given that we all communicate much more via non-verbal modes (especially since most students have unlimited SMS schemes so it’s easier and cheaper to type than to call), it’s quite interesting how we use these non-linguistic cues strategically, as a means of overcoming the shortfalls of our mode of communication.

I realize that I do use a lot of smiley faces and emoticons in my messages, particularly if I am making a request. I guess the use of these figures help to mitigate the effects of negative politeness – in a way if I said:

“Sorry to bother you, but could you loan me your CD?”

I suppose I could say better with:

“Sorry to bother you, but could you loan me your CD? (:“

I guess there are also other ways people overcome this issue, such as using “haha” or “lol”, so that the request doesn’t seem so formal or like you’re asking for too much. I wonder if this sort of strategy is a kind of a universal norm, because I’ve never really sms’d/online chat with people from other countries and cultures… This is more of an observation of what I see myself and my friends doing.

I suppose we might learn more of this soon when we focus on computer mediated communication…

Friday, March 5, 2010

Components & Representation

This week we learnt basic concepts for intercultural communication - Hofstede's dimensions of cultural variability. I think through the exercises, I learnt that while Singapore is by and large a collectivst in culture, we are quite individualistic in some aspects. I think this kind of goes hand-in-hand with the whole idea of meritocracy, where our individual efforts are supposed to pay off (kind of like, you reap what you sow). So maybe we are collectivist in terms of our values (such as, for example, our shared values, one of which is "Nation before society and society before self" and "Family as the basic unit of society") but in terms of economic/academic advancement, we are quite individualist. Maybe that's also why we need to have these 'values' in place, so we don't wind up being too individualist in terms of our culture.

The video at the end reminded me of the need to understand other cultures that we may potentially interact with - kind of like doing some background reading/homework before we go to another country. I thought I'd just share my experience here:

When I went to Spain 3 years ago, I was quite surprised because the shops there were always closed in the mid-afternoon for their siesta, and they always had public holidays. Every religious day was a public holiday, and if their football team won (for example, when I was in Madrid, Real Madrid won La Liga) then it'd be another public holiday. They really have all sorts of holidays. I think compared to them, Singapore has about half the number of public holidays. A lot of the people on tour remarked that they were so lazy etc etc, because even if we had a public holiday here, you'd never find all the shops closed anyway - in fact, in Singapore, it'd probably be better if your shop were open on a public holiday so you could capitalize on sales from all the people who are on leave. Anyway, after I read about Hofstede's 'Masculinity vs. Femininity', and saw how low Spain was ranked on the 'Masculinity' scale, it all quite made sense. I think the people there see life as being easygoing and carefree - it's not that they don't have any ambition or assertivenes, but rather, I think these aren't as important to them as living a good and stress-free life. So it's not that they're lazy or anything, they just abide by different norms.

I guess it's always good to read up and learn about the culture that you're going into, because it's not really very nice to judge another's culture based on YOUR own culture.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Written Discourse

In class this week, we focused on 'written discourse'. It was quite fun because we got to analyze writings and how they relate to individual cultures.

Kaplan’s ‘framework’ (I guess that’s what it’s called?) certainly has its merits, and it was so super interesting to realize that there *are* actually trends between the way a person writes and the culture one is from. One really cool thing to learn was that English is written in a linear fashion, which, if I’m not wrong, is what we were all taught to do since primary school – we must always have a topic statement, subdivisions, examples and illustrations and have to close off the paragraph neatly. I think if I wrote in the manner that the semitic framework proposed (with the parallel constructions), I’d probably fail my English and wouldn’t be in NUS right now. The most useful thing to have gained from Kaplan’s study is that it probably allows me to better understand what another culture requires (i.e. their expectations) in terms of writing. For example, I probably wouldn’t be able to write the say that I can write in the exact manner that a German speaker would, but from the framework, I could probably guess what is the style of the written discourse they would be looking out for. So I guess knowing what kind of culture the other party resides in can help me in my writing and also probably minimize any sort of cultural misunderstandings.

This is just a question that I had in my mind: Does the increasing hybridization of culture (especially due to globalization, transnationalism, diaspora etc) mean that Kaplan’s ‘framework’ will slowly hold less sway in academia? His study is situated in 1972, and it’s been roughly 30 years already, and I do think the world has changed much and, as Dr. Deng mentioned, to view written discourse in such an ethnocentric manner is quite dangerous. I mean, what would the paragraph development of a Mandarin speaker, writing in French, look like?

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Spoken Discourse

First, HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR!!! hope recess week is going well for everyone!

and now...on to the reflection.

This (last?) week we focused on spoken discourse. I think the really interesting thing about this module is that it really makes explicit all the things I just take for granted.

For example, telephone openings/closings. It’s just something that’s been taught from young and I never ever thought it could be an area of research for some – quite fascinating.

I remember when I was young I wasn’t allowed to answer the phone/make phone calls because I hadn’t yet learnt how to do it properly, and I might come off as rude. I think this might be the case for most families, where the kids aren’t allowed to answer the phone until they’ve learnt how to respond politely. Anyway, I remember learning how to answer phones (it was such a ‘shiok’ feeling when I finally got to answer my 1st phone call :D) and my mother would tell me that I always had to say “hello” first, never ever start with a “yeah” or “what”. When I was making a call, I would always have to say “may I speak to [so and so] please?” and “thank you” once the person on the other line had transferred me over. All these ‘steps’ are so ingrained in me I guess I don’t realize I’m doing it.

Another thing I found interesting was the exercise done on English and Chinese narratives. If the culture that the CW’s grew up in affected how they wrote their narratives in English, what would this mean for bilinguals, or at the very least, Singaporeans? Because I grow up speaking English, but I am Chinese and adhere to Chinese culture, so if I were to write a narrative in Mandarin, would it be affected by elements of how I would write in English, and vice versa?

Friday, February 5, 2010

Recalling a Speech Event

After learning about speech events, I thought I’d share about my experience when I went to Texas:

Going to Texas to visit my relative was a huge culture shock for me, simply because I wasn’t used to the overt friendliness of everyone there. I think what contributed to this extreme friendliness was the fact that it was a small town that my aunt stayed in, only a population of about 3000 people. What surprised me and my cousins the most was the fact that when we went into shops, everyone (I’m not kidding—everyone) greeted us in an extremely friendly manner. They’d say things like “Hi! How’re you today?” or “Hi there! How’s things going” which really caught us off guard. You just don’t find people like this in Singapore! The first few times, we didn’t really know how to respond to them, because we just weren’t used to it, so we employed a strategy of smiling and giving generic answers of “Oh I’m fine, thanks”, but didn’t really reply or engage in a conversation with them. It took us awhile to get accustomed to such friendliness and thereafter, we loosened up and started to converse more with the salespeople. The salespeople there were genuinely interested in helping and getting to know us, especially since we were 4 Asians from a country they had never been to. Friendliness seems to be a part of their culture, particularly in that town where everyone sort of knew each other. The customers that I observed actually welcomed the help and advice/suggestions of the salespeople, while in Singapore I suspect a lot of us would be quite annoyed with a salesperson hovering over our shoulders.

That was in 2004, before I ever learnt anything about speech acts or gave much thought to how different cultures beget different rules and norms.

Now, looking back, I can see that the first few times I encountered these Texan salespeople, I must have violated some culturally implicit rule by not replying equally cheerfully and instead attempting to maintain the distance of customer-salesperson. To them, I must have seemed quite (in Singapore Colloquial English terms) ‘dao’. However, I soon got used to their way of interaction and, because I was a minority, I think I started to change the way I would behave to suit the majority. As such the rules for interaction in Texas would probably have been being friendly, keeping a smile on one's face, while doing the converse would have been considered rude or impolite.

Comparing my experience there with Singapore, I can see that the values of a society lead to different interactional norms and rules. However, I wouldn’t say this is a truism for all of the service industry in Singapore, because some of the smaller retail outlets/restaurants are actually very much inclined towards getting to know their customers rather than selling as much as they can. Still, a large majority of Singapore seem to behave in this manner.

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Speech Acts

The topic of ‘Speech Acts’ was really interesting, because I don’t think I ever really gave much thought to it. For me, using language is something so natural and normal that when I say something I don’t always realize that I’m performing an act. I think the fact that we call it a ‘performance’ kind of reflects on how no utterance is ever so ‘neutral’ as we think it is. I think this video sums up a bit of how un-neutral language can be when we use it – even if we don’t really realize we’re using it:



Anyway I had 1 final thought, which I guess is also kind of a question:

Maybe joking can also be a way of deflecting a compliment?
If a really good friend of mine complimented me, I think I’d be more inclined to be thick-skinned and go “Of course I’m pretty!” as opposed to “Thank you”. But then I thought maybe this could be a form of deflecting, where we play up the humor so we don’t have to deal with the compliment, because maybe we aren’t fully comfortable/used to receiving compliments! I mean, I think in Asian societies, the virtue of humility gets played up quite a bit so we don’t really give nor receive compliments much. It’d be quite a good strategy to use humor to sort of downplay the compliment, while at the same time giving this impression that you’re a funny person.